She treats her fatness as a physical expression of her PTSD, which means it’s not something that she can love and accept about herself unconditionally. Gay’s position means she can’t quite conform to either expectation. Feminist women are encouraged to aggressively love their bodies, to understand that one can be healthy at any size and to fight against the culture that teaches women to hate their bodies. Women in general are expected to hate their bodies with a kind of performative smugness, as if the more loudly they announce their loathing of their thighs and their butts and their bellies, the more feminine they will become. There are certain expectations that come with writing about one’s body in public, for women in general and for feminists in particular.
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